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\n\t\t\t\t<\/nav>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-51ef9b9 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"51ef9b9\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4a39f17 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4a39f17\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>La relation d\u2019aide semble \u00eatre \u00e9vidente lorsque l\u2019on est manager. Oui, mais c\u2019est tout sauf \u00e9vident \u00e0 r\u00e9aliser : notre humeur du moment, notre niveau d\u2019\u00e9nergie, nos pr\u00e9occupations, nos biais cognitifs, nos enjeux personnels, sont autant de pi\u00e8ces qui rendent le puzzle de l\u2019accompagnement difficile \u00e0 construire.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-414155b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"414155b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b40b9dc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b40b9dc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>En quoi les dispositions non-directives sont-elles une cl\u00e9 de l\u2019autorit\u00e9 en management ?<\/strong><\/p><p><br \/>L\u2019autorit\u00e9 suppose de cr\u00e9er les conditions de croissance de l\u2019autre (Cf. Michel SERRES, 1er article de la s\u00e9rie). Pour soutenir la croissance de l\u2019autre, il s\u2019agit de l\u2019appr\u00e9hender, de le connaitre, de le comprendre. La bonne perception de l\u2019environnement et de ses interlocuteurs est donc essentielle dans ce r\u00f4le qui peut conf\u00e9rer l\u2019autorit\u00e9. \u00catre convenablement connect\u00e9 \u00e0 son environnement est une chose et n\u00e9cessit\u00e9 vigilance, attention, bon sens. Mais quelle est la perception de nos collaborateurs sur ce que nous sommes ?<\/p><p>Le fait d\u2019\u00eatre align\u00e9 et de se comporter de mani\u00e8re d\u00e9mocratique, de mani\u00e8re non-directive dans les situations qui le n\u00e9cessitent renforce la perception positive de ce que nous sommes et favorise l\u2019autorit\u00e9 conf\u00e9r\u00e9e.<\/p><p><strong>De quoi parle-t-on exactement lorsque l\u2019on \u00e9voque des dispositions non directives ?<\/strong><\/p><p><br \/>Pour r\u00e9pondre, allons tout d\u2019abord puiser chez Carl Rogers. Chez ce dernier, la non-directivit\u00e9 est l\u2019un des caract\u00e9ristiques de son approche centr\u00e9e sur la personne. La non-directivit\u00e9, c\u2019est laisser \u00e0 l\u2019interlocuteur la possibilit\u00e9 de s\u2019exprimer et de choisir le cours de son expression. L\u2019\u00e9coutant, le manager, loin de vouloir contr\u00f4ler la relation et les entretiens par des interventions directives, respecte totalement son interlocuteur et lui laisse donc la libert\u00e9 de<br \/>choisir le cours du processus.<\/p><p>Ensuite, demandons-nous ce qui caract\u00e9rise vraiment les relations de soutien et de d\u00e9veloppement.<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Dans la relation parent-enfant, l\u2019attitude d\u2019ouverture d\u00e9mocratique est la plus favorable \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9panouissement (Baldwin, A.L., Kalhorn, J. et Breese, Patterns of parents behavior).<\/li><li>Dans la relation th\u00e9rapeute-patient, la compr\u00e9hension de la carte du monde de l\u2019autre, l\u2019implication personnelle dans la relation et les objectifs li\u00e9s \u00e0 la personnalit\u00e9 de l\u2019autre sont des caract\u00e9ristiques d\u2019efficacit\u00e9 (Betz, B.J. et Whitehorn, The relationship of the therapist to the outcome of therapy in schizophrenia)<\/li><li>Dans la relation d\u2019aide, plusieurs \u00e9tudes d\u00e9montrent que l\u2019authenticit\u00e9, la confiance \u00e9prouv\u00e9e par la personne aid\u00e9e, le fait de se sentir compris, de pouvoir prendre des d\u00e9cisions en toute autonomie, la sympathie et le<br \/>respect mutuel sont des facteurs de r\u00e9ussite de la relation (Cf. les travaux de Heine, Fidler, Quinn, Dittes entre autres).<br \/>M\u00eame si ces \u00e9tudes n\u2019apportent pas de r\u00e9ponse d\u00e9finitive et abordent la question sous diff\u00e9rents angles, on voit clairement ressortir les deux param\u00e8tres fondamentaux de la r\u00e9ussite des relations de soutien et de d\u00e9veloppement. Les attitudes de la personne aidante d\u2019une part (manager) et la perception de la relation par la personne aid\u00e9e d\u2019autre<br \/>part (manag\u00e9).<\/li><\/ul><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><strong>Comment alors cr\u00e9er une relation d\u2019aide la plus efficace possible ?<\/strong><\/p><p>D\u2019apr\u00e8s Carl Rogers, une dizaine de questions et d\u2019observations apportent quelques \u00e9l\u00e9ments de r\u00e9ponse. Je vous \u00e9pargne les questions :<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>\u00catre soi, \u00eatre congruent, comportement que les autres jugent digne de confiance<\/li><li>\u00catre transparent quant \u00e0 ses sentiments<\/li><li>S\u2019autoriser \u00e0 manifester chaleur, attention, affection, int\u00e9r\u00eat<\/li><li>Assumer sa singularit\u00e9 avec l\u2019alt\u00e9rit\u00e9 de l\u2019autre (ex : avoir le m\u00eame respect pour ses besoins que pour les siens)<\/li><li>\u00catre suffisamment solide pour consentir \u00e0 chacun d\u2019\u00eatre singulier<\/li><li>Faire preuve d\u2019empathie pour entrer dans l\u2019univers de l\u2019autre sans juger, sans pi\u00e9tiner son sens, pour<br \/>comprendre les erreurs plus que de les fustiger<\/li><li>Accepter chacune des facettes de personnalit\u00e9 de l\u2019autre<\/li><li>Se comporter avec tact pour ne pas \u00eatre per\u00e7u comme une menace (Cf \u00e9tudes sur le r\u00e9flexe psychogalvanique)<\/li><li>Le rapport au jugement et \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9valuation \u00e0 soigner, id\u00e9alement \u00e0 supprimer<\/li><li>Voir l\u2019autre comme une personne en devenir (limiter le biais de confirmation, l\u2019\u00e9tiquetage par le pass\u00e9)<\/li><\/ul><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><strong>En conclusion,\u00a0<\/strong>j\u2019appuierai sur ce que je crois \u00eatre le plus fondamental dans ce sujet. Le fait que cette mission, cette entreprise d\u2019aide, de soutien, de rapport \u00e0 l\u2019autre de mani\u00e8re plus globale est l\u2019une des plus fondamentales qui soit dans l\u2019avenir de l\u2019esp\u00e8ce. En effet, notre destin est commun car interd\u00e9pendant, et de la qualit\u00e9 de nos relations va d\u00e9pendre le chemin que l\u2019esp\u00e8ce prendra. Il est donc essentiel de travailler \u00e0 son propre \u00e9panouissement pour \u00eatre en mesure d\u2019accompagner les autres avec le plus de justesse possible, vers une destin\u00e9e commune qui respecte l\u2019alt\u00e9rit\u00e9 de chacun.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e8cd678 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"e8cd678\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-172f8a5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"172f8a5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Article publi\u00e9 par Olivier Sube<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>+33 (06) 76 75 02 62 olivier_sube@hotmail.com Menu Accueil A propos Une \u00e9quipe Expertises Management Relation client Comp\u00e9tences comportementales Gestes m\u00e9tier Formation Conduite de projet Coaching Animations Blog Contact La relation d\u2019aide semble \u00eatre \u00e9vidente lorsque l\u2019on est manager. Oui, mais c\u2019est tout sauf \u00e9vident \u00e0 r\u00e9aliser : notre humeur du moment, notre niveau d\u2019\u00e9nergie, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":772,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-342","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-publications"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.didacteconseils.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/brooke-cagle-JBwcenOuRCg-unsplash.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.didacteconseils.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/342","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.didacteconseils.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.didacteconseils.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.didacteconseils.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.didacteconseils.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=342"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/www.didacteconseils.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/342\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4481,"href":"https:\/\/www.didacteconseils.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/342\/revisions\/4481"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.didacteconseils.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/772"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.didacteconseils.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=342"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.didacteconseils.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=342"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.didacteconseils.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=342"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}